Till Death Do Us Part: A Luxurious Gothic Wedding with Emo Elegance

Not every love story is written in white lace and pastel roses, and weddings are no longer bound by tradition. Some are bold, dramatic, and laced with a touch of the darkly romantic. At Provenance Wines, we embrace weddings that step beyond tradition, weddings that completely embody the character and the love story that have brought our couples together, and that is exactly what Jo and Scott got. A day that felt so authentically theirs to celebrate growing young together. 

A Venue Made for Atmosphere

Housed in a century-old bluestone building on the Barwon River, Provenance Wines is already steeped in mood, history and drama. Our soaring cathedral-style ceilings and heritage stone set the stage for a celebration that felt both unique and unforgettable. Here, our venue becomes part of the story—a place where shadows and candlelight create a natural sense of romance. Enter Jo and Scott, a duo with such an identity as a couple, we knew this would be a celebration that was precisely them.  

Styling the Dark Romance

Think blue stone building, black-tapered candles on tall candelabras - but it was really as the guests arrived, honouring the black dress code, that they entered the space and became part of the couple's style. Joining their surroundings and emphasising the drama. Led by our sleek groom with all the polished finishes, we only had to wait for our bride. She arrives in a nude and black lace gown with corset detailing, designed and made by the bride herself (what??!), finished off with a veil of black sheer bridal tulle with scalloped French lace trimming and blew us all away. Celebrant Clare Alice represented the story of Jo and Scott in a unique and authentic way, using her obvious passion for creating a people-focused experience in her storytelling that matched the mood seamlessly.

For the reception in our Barrel Hall, long tables with black tablecloths, candles, candles, and more candles, as well as baby's breath and purple smoke bush leaves, completed the reception style. The possibilities were endless! Velvet runners? Florals in rich jewel tones? Burgundy roses? Deep plum dahlias? Dark orchids? Make it yours! Complimented by the metallic accents to elevate, like our polished silver and sparkling glassware, and the scene is set.

The Soundtrack of Eternal Love

Music shapes the atmosphere at any celebration, and at a gothic wedding, it only heightens the drama. Jo walking down the aisle to Just Like Heaven by Vitamin String Quartet hit the entire room, drawing tears from more than just Scott! Imagine a haunting string quartet filling the room, or an acoustic ballad that turns the aisle into a deeply felt moment. Signing to their love with We Found Each Other in the Dark by City and Colour, a perfect fit for these two.

Later, as the night unfolds, the playlist can shift—whether it’s modern, alternative, or classic love songs reimagined with darker tones. Every song becomes part of the love story. Jo and Scott burst in to join their loved ones with Blink 182’s The Rock Show, letting their guests know, in no uncertain terms, they had arrived to PARTY!!! Their first dance had them return to City and Colour with Bow Down to Love, an anthem to their promise to each other.

A Menu to Match the Mood

Our culinary team brings a sense of decadence to the table. Picture slow-cooked meats with a deep red wine glaze, smoked vegetables with rich textures, and indulgent desserts of dark chocolate. Paired with Provenance’s Pinot Noir or Shiraz, the experience is layered, bold, and unforgettable.

Photography in Shadow and Light

The play of shadows and candlelight within our bluestone walls creates striking imagery. From atmospheric portraits framed by heritage stone to golden-hour field shots that feel, Provenance is a photographer’s dream for couples who want their wedding album to look like a timeless piece of art. Jo and Scott chose with their hearts, and the result was perfect. Dave Le Page, a photographer whose work history and unique lived experiences enrich his insight into the world of capturing moments that matter, also offers him a unique ability to connect with individuals who are hesitant to conform to conventional paths. Watching Dave support this couple to be comfortable in front of the camera and embrace who they are at their core led to EPIC wedding photography! A timeless collection that will no doubt grace the walls of their grandchildren’s houses and tell some stories!

Why Choose a Gothic or Emo Wedding at Provenance?

Because your love isn’t ordinary, it’s passionate, dramatic, a little rebellious—and it deserves to be celebrated in a way that’s as unique as you are. At Provenance Wines, the marriage of history, luxury, and atmosphere allows you to create a wedding that is both indulgent and unforgettable.

Your Darkly Elegant Celebration Awaits

If you dream of a wedding that feels like stepping into your own gothic fairytale, Provenance Wines offers the perfect canvas. Let the stone walls, candlelight, and fine wine set the scene for a celebration that is unapologetically yours.

Because love this powerful deserves more than tradition—it deserves an experience as “you” as the story you’re writing together, and we are here for it!

Photography by Dave Le Page.